What is it to be present?
By the time we wrap our arms around it, the moments have passed. This day, these moments, these exact experiences will never be again- what is, becomes what was with every breath.
With each exhale, another piece of our story has lived. Who we are becomes who we were with each passing second.
The honor of being invited into the sharing of a story re-creates the moments which have already vanished. This witnessing resurrects the sacred past, offering the story-teller the chance to relive, reclaim, and remember. Through story, an illumination of what would otherwise remain invisible now resides in the hearts of the audience. We are less alone and hopefully blessed by the shared memories.
When we get lost in our busy lives, checking off items on the to-do lists, racing to the next hurdle, losing conscious connection with ourselves and our loved ones, we are distracted from attending to the moments and unique experiences of our present lives.
The rush to the next moment leaves little time to share or to recollect our now lost hours. It is in our stories that we make our connections to our own pasts and our shared humanity.
In my work I make a lot of jewelry. Some of it is for fun, some of it is to experiment- but often I am invited to create a piece with significance. A piece of someone’s story.
These works are my joy. They are complex. By being honored as a witness, I work with my client to bring forth moments, hours, years and lifetimes of lived experiences.
It’s a phenomenal honor.
Susan, this is so relevant to me right now as I’m mending my broken heart. My brother passed this last weekend and two beloved family dogs were laid to rest. Even though I know all is well I keep thinking about, ‘losing conscious connection with my loved one’…not paying close enough attention to my brother during our conversations. Thank you for sending this email…it’s so spot on for me at this moment in time. By the way I love your work! Thank you for sharing and maybe one day you’ll offer some on-line classes?! Sammy Ramsey
At this time in my life I feel more able to live in the present than any other time. I’m retired so any rushing around I do is self generated. I take extra time to not have o rush be it for appointments or social visits. My art keeps me in the present, my animals keep me in the present, loving my husband and others keep me in the present. Not always, but enough.